The Other Side of the Judges Table: Miss Central Florida’s Heart of Christmas Pageant
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Please excuse the car selfie. A beauty queen’s gotta do what a beauty queen’s gotta do when it comes to documenting her year. I’ve been a contestant on stage many times, but I’ve always wondered what it was like on the other side of the judges’ table. As a delegate, you learn the alleged tips and tricks for winning over those who complete your scorecards through trial/error, stage coaching, and advice from fellow contestants. For the first time ever, I got to test these theories first-hand when I was asked to judge the Miss Central Florida’s Heart of Christmas Pageant as Miss Tampa Bay USA last month.
This Miss Heart of USA local was held at the Best Western Premier Saratoga Resort, and it featured contestants ranging from “little princesses” (ie. babies) to a “senior division,” which was entertaining to say the least. This diverse group of ladies competed in the areas of personality, stage presence, and seasonal outfit of choice. I was instructed to give each contestant a score from 1 to 10 in each category, and since the score sheets were available to participants after the pageant (a luxury not offered in either of the systems I’ve competed in), I wasn’t allowed to write any comments or suggestions on the ballots… which was tough. You always want to justify why you gave someone a less than stellar score, so I struggled a bit with that aspect of the judging process.
Sherry, the state director of the Miss Heart of Florida system, was incredibly sweet and provided all the Miss Central Florida’s Heart of Christmas Pageant judges with a warm welcome and generous gift bag. Who doesn’t love a new purse and wallet combo? Also, I collect coffee mugs, so I was elated to receive this fun and functional memento. Now every time I drink my morning coffee, I think about my MHOU winners!
One great thing about the Miss Heart of USA system is their dedicated advocacy for, “Stomping out hunger one county at a time.” I genuinely enjoy recognizing those who devote their free time to making a difference in the lives of others, which is probably why being a member of the International Reading Association’s Service Awards Committee has had such impact in my life. Many of these ladies have made huge strides against hunger in their communities, and I have to admit, all outfits aside, the girls with community service substance received my highest scores.
On the other hand, qualities which did not receive high scores from Judge #2 included: age-inappropriate outfits, piercing staring/prolonged eye contact resembling that of a victory performance in a blinking contest, excessive eye batting, total lack of eye contact, robotic mechanics, and too much makeup. One of the main reasons I was so excited to help judge this pageant was that it’s as far away from a Toddlers & Tiaras competition as you can get; hence, I scored those who broke the well known rules of  a natural beauty/non-glitz pageant accordingly. Rule stickler up in here.After about an hour of competition, the winners from each of 10 divisions were announced, including Most Photogenic and Best Outfit of Choice. These crowns were actual replicas of those used by the Miss America Organization, so seeing the sheer joy in these ladies’ eyes as they received their royal accessories was so rewarding. I won’t lie, though; the look of disappointment on the faces of the non-finalists was hard to take. If I could’ve, I would’ve given each and every little girl a pink rhinestoned crown. I did end up letting a few of the little ones try on my MTB sash, which swallowed them whole and remains one of the most adorable things I’ve ever seen.
All in all, I’d say my first experience as a pageant judge was entirely positive. As a competitor myself, I learned more about what not to do on stage (Moral of the Story: Creepy staring, including prolonged eye contact and excessive blinking, is the #1 way to scare people and is never attractive). Â Also, I’ve made up my mind that after my pageant run comes to an end, I would love to stay involved through the judges’ circuit. It’s fun, rewarding, and a great way to recognize those deserving of the crown! Plus, you meet some incredible community leaders, like this accomplished attorney (above) I got to spend my Sunday afternoon with.
Have you (or would you) ever judged a pageant? If it sounds like something you may be interested in, let me know. They’re addicting, I tell you! Oh, and don’t forget to enter in my Valentine’s Giveaway for a chance to win a huge $1,000 cash prize! Giveaway ends February 14th!
You are gorgeous sweet, intelligent and elegant . Thanks for sharing and helping us understand ithe intel it takes to be a participant the importance of donating or being member of a good course and what a judge looks for tha ty considert will be the best candidate. Great job doll. http://tifi11.blogspot.com
Hi sweet Stephania, you're adorable and beautiful!!!! The dress's color is amazing I follow you on bloglovin and thank you thank you thank you <3 <3 <3!!!! HAPPY SUNDAY
I'm so glad to have found your blog. It's really quite interesting to me! I live in St. Petersburg, FL and, wow, you are just the perfect representative for the Tampa Bay Area! Congratulations!! 🙂
Yey You! Go go go! Keep supporting other girls in their dreams! So awesome! Proud of you chica! Keep it up! Ciao ciao for now Cherelynn http://makeupuniversity.blogspot.com
You are so adorable! Serious hair envy over here! I wish MAO would allow contestants to at least have a suggestions/critiques from the judges. How are we supposed to develop if we don't even know if we did something wrong, ya know? Anyways, rant over! Looks like you had a blast judging the pageant!!
Ugh, I feel you! I've asked directors for feedback before, but even then, it's very vague. MAO has really strict guidelines, and I just don't get it! But yes, I had a ton of fun… definitely an experience! Hope you're having a fabulous week!
Haha "prolonged eye contact and excessive blinking" – I think if it was me up there I'd do exactly that from being petrified, deer-in-headlights. Sounds like a great experience, looking super pretty in pink!
Girl, there's a big difference between scared and creepy! I wish I could show a video of how intense some of these chicks stare judges down. But seriously, it was a ton of fun, and I had a blast. Happy Tuesday!!! 🙂
Love this! Im from the UK and pageants aren’t as big here! But my friend has recently got into the final of Miss Hertfordshire which if she wins, she gets an automatic entry into Miss England! Exciting!
Exciting indeed! That's awesome! Ya, us Americans are obsessed with our football and our pageants… it's just what we do. Wish her the best of luck for me! 🙂
How nice to be on the other side of the game and i am sure you were fantastic. Judging would be fun but i wouldn't want the contestants to take it personally and hate me :)). Great post and thanks for sharing.
It was such a great experience! I started off with that same mentality… but as time went on, I felt more and more comfortable giving both lower and higher scores. Some contestants were dressed completely inappropriately, which made it easy to mark off for, and some just had accolades for days, which warranted higher scores (in my opinion). I just wish I could've written DRESS YOUR AGE on the scoresheet!
I did my fair share of pageants as well, and I've always wondered the same thing! You look gorgeous. Following you now 🙂 xo, Allie http://www.sparklesandstilettos.com
This looks so fun! 🙂 I finally was able to get our your site 🙂 I'm loving it! I had no idea you live in Orlando, we should meet up sometime! x Missy http://popofstyle.com
You are gorgeous sweet, intelligent and elegant . Thanks for sharing and helping us understand ithe intel it takes to be a participant the importance of donating or being member of a good course and what a judge looks for tha ty considert will be the best candidate. Great job doll.
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You're so sweet, made my day! Hope you're having a great week 🙂
Such an interesting post!
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Thanks, Sara! It was an interesting day, too. Glad you stopped by!
lovely! Happy weekend. 🙂
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Thanks, girl! Hope your week is fabulous!
Hi sweet Stephania, you're adorable and beautiful!!!!
The dress's color is amazing
I follow you on bloglovin and thank you thank you thank you <3 <3 <3!!!!
HAPPY SUNDAY
Aw, thank you so much, pretty lady! Looking forward to your updates, as well! 🙂
I'm so glad to have found your blog. It's really quite interesting to me! I live in St. Petersburg, FL and, wow, you are just the perfect representative for the Tampa Bay Area! Congratulations!! 🙂
Thank you so much, Natalie! Made my day! Also, it's always great meeting fellow Floridians 🙂 Hope you're enjoying the 80 degree winter weather! xo.
So proud of your accomplishments!
Tanks, Ash. Tanks.
I would have a hard time judge them. Mainly due to I find kids to be too cute.
You have NO idea how hard it is! Luckily, you just score and move on… there's no going back and changing scores/placements, so that helped.
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Thanks, girl! So glad to have you! 🙂
Yey You! Go go go! Keep supporting other girls in their dreams! So awesome! Proud of you chica! Keep it up!
Ciao ciao for now
Cherelynn
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Thanks, Cherelynn! You always give the best mid-week pick-me-ups!
You are so adorable! Serious hair envy over here! I wish MAO would allow contestants to at least have a suggestions/critiques from the judges. How are we supposed to develop if we don't even know if we did something wrong, ya know? Anyways, rant over! Looks like you had a blast judging the pageant!!
Ugh, I feel you! I've asked directors for feedback before, but even then, it's very vague. MAO has really strict guidelines, and I just don't get it! But yes, I had a ton of fun… definitely an experience! Hope you're having a fabulous week!
Very interesting post dear…loved reading it..:-)
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I'm so glad! Hope you're having an awesome week :)!
This sounds so fun!
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It was! Truly a blast… always great experiencing new things. Hope you're having a wonderful week!
Haha "prolonged eye contact and excessive blinking" – I think if it was me up there I'd do exactly that from being petrified, deer-in-headlights. Sounds like a great experience, looking super pretty in pink!
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Girl, there's a big difference between scared and creepy! I wish I could show a video of how intense some of these chicks stare judges down. But seriously, it was a ton of fun, and I had a blast. Happy Tuesday!!! 🙂
Love this! Im from the UK and pageants aren’t as big here! But my friend has recently got into the final of Miss Hertfordshire which if she wins, she gets an automatic entry into Miss England! Exciting!
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Exciting indeed! That's awesome! Ya, us Americans are obsessed with our football and our pageants… it's just what we do. Wish her the best of luck for me! 🙂
How nice to be on the other side of the game and i am sure you were fantastic. Judging would be fun but i wouldn't want the contestants to take it personally and hate me :)). Great post and thanks for sharing.
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It was such a great experience! I started off with that same mentality… but as time went on, I felt more and more comfortable giving both lower and higher scores. Some contestants were dressed completely inappropriately, which made it easy to mark off for, and some just had accolades for days, which warranted higher scores (in my opinion). I just wish I could've written DRESS YOUR AGE on the scoresheet!
That is so awesome that you got to see the other side of it – thanks for sharing!
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It was so great; definitely one of those experiences I won't forget! Glad you stopped by 🙂 Have a great week!
I did my fair share of pageants as well, and I've always wondered the same thing! You look gorgeous. Following you now 🙂
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Aw, how cool! Love meeting fellow pageant queens 🙂 I'm so glad to have you! 🙂
This looks so fun! 🙂 I finally was able to get our your site 🙂 I'm loving it! I had no idea you live in Orlando, we should meet up sometime!
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